The Gift of Chosen Family: A Hari Raya Gathering for Mr Mahlan

Hari Raya Aidilfitri is a time for joy, forgiveness, and family.

For 78-year-old Mr Mahlan, the festival carried a poignant weight. Estranged from his children, his wish was not for grand gestures, but for the simple, familiar warmth of a shared meal and the sound of companionship.

In his time of need, his definition of family was beautifully redefined by his neighbours, whose daily check-ins became a lifeline. In just three days, Ambulance Wish Singapore volunteers worked to honour his wish, transforming his home into a space for a heartfelt Hari Raya celebration with his wife and this cherished community.

A Celebration Forged by Community

The gathering was a powerful testament to the bonds of neighbourhood. His elderly neighbours, despite their own frailties, dressed in their festive best and joined with full hearts. Against a backdrop of soulful P. Ramlee tunes, the room filled with the warmth of shared food, conversation, and quiet joy.

Mr Mahlan, though reserved, was the gracious host, presenting small food gifts to his guests. In turn, his neighbours showed how companionship builds resilience, creating a circle of care that filled the space left by absence.

A Reminder That No One Is Alone

This gathering was a profound example of Ambulance Wish Singapore’s mission: to bring dignity, comfort, and connection to those in life’s final chapter. For Mr Mahlan, it was a powerful reminder that he is valued and loved.

We extend our deepest gratitude to the dedicated volunteers, medical social workers, and Mr Mahlan’s wonderful neighbours who made this spontaneous gathering possible with their open hearts. Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to all. May the spirit of love, acceptance, and community continue to light our way.

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