Vanessa’s Celebration of Life was, at its heart, a portrait of strength. Told that her cancer was now terminal, she chose to face this season with courage, creating a living funeral where she could stand in the same room as the people she loves, hear their voices, and celebrate the journey they have shared. She stayed closely involved in the planning, bringing the same determination and clarity she has shown in her work and personal life.
The evening was filled with light moments and deep connections–from sincere speeches and spoken encouragement, to messages flowing in through livestream from loved ones overseas, all reflecting how widely and deeply she has touched others. It was moving to see how her international community came together, both in person and online, to hold space for her courage and her joy. During the celebration, her pastor shared reflections and heartfelt speeches that honoured Vanessa’s courage, resilience, and impact.
As the night drew to a close, the celebration rose into a joyful finale. When Bon Jovi’s “It’s My Life” played, Vanessa and her friends danced with bright, fearless energy and laughter, a powerful picture of joy and strength in the face of uncertainty.
Heartfelt thanks to Vanessa’s family, Sister Shirley, and the YCCL church community, and to Ambulance Wish Singapore volunteers Ryu, Eunice, Seok Yee, and Kelvina. Special shout-out to our make-up artist, Karyn, and photographer, Brian, for providing pro bono services. This meaningful wish would also not have been made possible without the kind assistance of Strikey Posey for videography and photobooth services, and of floral partner The Wedding Huts for the beautiful venue decoration.
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