By Heng Teng Teng

On 6 Nov, we had the honour of witnessing a beautiful moment as we fulfilled a simple, yet touching wish. Our nonagenarian guest, Mr Woon full of wisdom and stories gathered over the years, had just one wish: to share a quiet meal with the love of his life, his wife.

In a world that keeps moving, this moment was a gentle reminder of the power of simplicity. Sitting together, hand in hand, in gentleness, Mr and Mrs Woon were chatting and savouring their times together. There was no grand celebration or spectacle, just the two of them sharing a meal, as they must have done countless times before.

On the way back to the hospital, we asked Mr Woon on his secret recipe to keep a marriage of 57 years with Mrs Woon. He shared “two simple words—’Thank you’ and ‘Sorry’. You do not always have to win in all arguments. “Thank you” is a way of expressing appreciation, showing people that their actions, no matter how small, are valued. Then there’s the power of “sorry”. Apologizing isn’t about admitting defeat or weakness; it’s about taking responsibility and showing that you care more about the relationship than your pride. And remember to be humble.

In both words lies the secret to meaningful connections. When we say ‘thank you,’ we elevate others. When we say ‘sorry,’ we humble ourselves. Both make us better, stronger, and more connected. What profound wisdom!  

It’s moments like these that bring us back to what truly matters in lives. The quiet connection, the familiar comfort, and the shared silence that says more than words ever could.

Here’s to cherishing every shared moment with our loved ones and reminding ourselves on what truly matters.